Monday, May 11, 2009

Are you ready to be my husband? you asked.

Dear Canny,

Dear wife! How are you feeling when you hear that i call you my wife?

In my view, husband is one great word which means more responsibilities. But how to take husband's responsibilities successfully? One man needs more power to carry them out. Acutually, the power indicates lots of meanings, including one's ability, knowledge, psychological mature and so on.

Reflecting on these items of mine, I think i couldn't be a perfect husband so far, however, this does not mean that i should not marry you now. The husband also needs chance and time to prove and improve himself, so does the wife. Therefore, we can get married before we are perfect. Anyway, we have the potential to be one perfect couple and to build one excellent family because we love each other deeply and have the same goal of life as well as the courage to achieve them.

Your nice feeling of being a wife indicates that you like to be my wife. I think that's absolutely engough to marry me because i believe you will struggle to be a perfect wife in the future. To be a wife or husband is actually one gradual process while the marriage is just one important symbol of starting.

Quote one ad words, reading: Leave one family before one minute, build up another family after one minute;Be one girlfriend before one minute, become one wife after minute. There is always some corner leading one into the new world in one's life. Now we are just on the corner, the moment for love into marriage and study into career.

It is exciting but also worrying. Nevertheless, you will finally find that both of them are all temporary. They are just some kinds of psychological impulse before some big changes of life. At last, the life will keep on heading to the right direction after the short stage. To be married or not? The answer for us is specific. More evidences indicate that we will step into marriage and hold one happy life in the future. The most important is that we believe that we can achieve that with our own hands.

Marry me, please!!!!!!

Yours sincerely,
Lovis Zhang



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Sunday, May 10, 2009

Open yourself to the world

Open your eyes to see and your ears to listesn;
Open your heart and mouth to show yourself;
That is, open yourself to the world.




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My short-time plan

Currently Canny is struggling for her ielts exam everyday, then I should also keep on working hard forward. What I should do is like the followings:
First, read professional books as much as I can before I leave, including both English and Chinese works.
Second, keep on learning english, especially in speaking and listenning.
Third, take proper exercise everyday to ensure my health.
Last, work carefully in the office.
Principles of carrying out are as follow: professional study is always in the first place, reasonably arrange the time for working and relax, and carry the plan out firmly and continuously.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

DIRECTION TO THE NEW WORLD

Eventually, I got the offer from NUS after harf a year hard work. Now what I need to do next is to try my best to make the fullest preparation for my future study at nus during the following year for I was admitted in advance for one year.



Meanwhile, I am also facing one great personal issue that how I deal with the relationship between my glfriend and me for the big switch of our life plan. Recently we have been focusing on this issue and got one agreement as followings: No. one strategy, she also applies for the NUS or other Singapore university to study with me; No. two strategy, she finds one job in Singapore in order to stady with me after she graduates; No. three, she go to nus as my companion without work. To ensure she could stay with me in the future, we have decided to get marriage in the coming summer vacation. But we fully hope that she could make the No. one or the No. two because that will make her life more valuable and fruitful in Singapore although we know that will be harder. Delightfully, she has begun working hard for the best options.